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Thursday, May 28, 2009

Once A Midday In A Bus

"How much should i pay?"

It was the first thing i asked to a man who sat beside my seat in a bus. A question that unfolded a brief conversation in bus. Brief yet worthwhile.

After answered my question, the man shook my hand, while saying his name (i didn't hear it unfortunately T_T). I did shake his hand and said my name. Then the conversation flew.
He asked me sort of questions about the place that i lived and my job.
Then he told me things bout himself. He said to me that he's responsible to handle visit in prison.
Indeed, he's a prison guard, yet what he handled is sort of VIP visit (like ministers or chief of department of something)

Later he told me about his life experience. He was a high school graduate. And he could reach his position right now with hard work and determination (hmm..sounds familiar in my application letter :D). And he ever worked as a sailor (kinda reminds me of my father. Yea..he was,too).

"Father was a sailor man
Father was a sailor man
He was strong to the finich
Cause he ate his spinach
Father was a sailor man"

-- rearrangement from Popeye The Sailor Man :D

Back to my conversation with the man i met in bus. He taught me two things. Two important things that should be remind. Particularly in work, and could be implemented in daily life as well. They are "courtesy" and "honesty".
As we live with others, one should has a courtesy or politeness or good manner. And honesty helps us to form bonds of trust in human relationships.

Here i found two good quotes about courtesy and honesty.

“He who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love” - Anon.
“Honesty: The best of all the lost arts” - Mark Twain.

"Pardon me Miss, but i have to get out of the bus, cause it is already arrived at my destination. Good day to you and good luck",
said Mr.Sorry-i-don't-know-ur-name while waving me good bye.


* anyone know what "finich" is?

Friday, May 22, 2009

Night At The Museum 2


I watched "Night At The Museum 2: Battle Of The Smithsonian" yesterday. The plot is about the artifacts from the Museum of Natural History in New York are shipped to the Smithsonian's archives. In my personal opinion, this movie is funnier than the prequel (not ROFL or CORL or even PIRL movie though).
But yes, it's funny ^^

For me, the most memorable character in the movie is Kahmunrah The Pharaoh, the antagonist character. Hank Azaria plays the pharaoh character good. He is so amusing.
Overall, i rate 3 of 5 points to this movie.


*fyi
ROFL: Rollin on Floor Laughin
CORL: Climbin on Roof Laughin (????)
PIRL: Plungin in River Laughin (what a!!!!)

the last two...i don't know the validity of the terms ^^
just made it for fun with my friend...of course the undefined one :D

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

I am The Center of Universe

It is gonna be another posting bout my pals, people around me. Cos i live the life as the center of the universe...kidding :D
Anyway, my previous sentence, live the life as the center of the universe, it reminds me of someone,,umm two actually. One is my best partner in crime i mentioned once in FWB posting, and the other one is my ex-crush.

When I was so young and naive (uh huh? lol), i fell for someone. Cannot mention lotta things bout him. He's just another star that twinkles at the sky. Not the sun, center of universe. Maybe the star, i mean..him, is the sun of another galaxy, but not mine obviously ^^
He was oh so bigheaded at that moment..yea, that what i was thinking. I and my friend used to say "He seems like the center of universe and everything revolves around him". Ahahaha..sorry dude, seems so much hatred were involved.
Against our peace-loving nature, eh? No..we don't meant it seriously :D

Btw, did i say sun is the center of universe? I don't even know exactly where the center of universe is.. ^^
What i found in wikipedia is just, in science there is no center of the physical universe, since the Big Bang occurred everywhere and all galaxies are moving away from each other. I'm not about to write Big Bang, too (or maybe i'll consider it later ^^).

Well, this center of universe term is not literally. It is such a person or something that draws you in. And just like the earth that revolves around the sun, so do you revolve around your center of universe.

Back again to him, the center of universe :D, is he still chesty as he was? Well, i dunno bout that, but lately i found out that he is sort of brother-material(yep,hehehe). Kinda gives me good advice though a lil bit undefined sometimes.

And her, one of my best buddy. A buddy who can read your mind, just by seein' ur expression or eyes. A buddy who could finish your statements and makes codewords together. A buddy to share dreams with, good and bad moments, likes and dislikes, laughter and cries, rise and fall.
Even silliness, absurdity and insanity (i am getting hyperbolic in this paragraph ^^).
Together we're invincible..ahahahaha.


*anyway, will ya make the underconstruction page to-amend-my-grammar-thing hun??

Monday, May 18, 2009

Bansai!!!

What will i post this moment? Just try to write down when surf the net using my friend's modem, :D
So this is kinda tribute to this very nice and humble guy (a very rough translation of Indonesian term of "baik hati dan tidak sombong").

Well, what am I going to write? No idea, frankly ^^

But..umm, since a tribute is something given, done, or said as a mark of respect or admiration, then i supposed to mention his kindness, but aaarrrggghhh...my deepest heart reluctantly admit it, :D

This thing kinda stresses me out, cos its connectivity is damn poor. Teaches me alot bout patience, eh? *sigh* Anyway, i should thank to the owner for this two months loan.


Merci beaucoup

Angels and Demons

Angels and Demons finally....*big grin*
After a long waiting, this film was released at May 15th,2009.
I read the novel about a year ago, so kinda forget it.
As i remember, the novel is alot more interesting than the movie ^^
Lot details and places in novel was cut out.
But, interesting place and good looking guys in the movie make me eagerly want to go to Italy ^_____^

I guess this movie poster is for Spanish market, yea..based on the language, it's kinda cool poster too. Show both angel and demon.
But, an angel is usually shown on right side, am i rite?



Aaahh..i find this pic, the ambigram of Angels and Demons, cool isn't it?



*i'm wondering bout making the ambigram of Rizka,my name, anyone could help me please? ^^

Monday, May 11, 2009

Tu Me Manques

What will you do if you miss someone?

a. Go meet him/her
b. Call him/her
c. Send him/her email/message

Let's analyze each answer!!

Assume person you've missed is in thousand miles away, will you go meet him/her instantly?
I guess the answer is no. Option number one, pass.

And what if you have his/her cell number, yet because of things you couldnot control, you LOST it. Ofcourse..number two, pass.

Let's check last option. You have his/her email address, and you type him/her some message.
Voila..you send it.
An hour or two...you wait for the reply. A day,two days and three days...still no reply.

Then you begin wondering, where is s/he? What happened with him/her? Why didn't s/he reply the message?

And at last....you'll still say.... I MISS YOU

Saturday, May 9, 2009

A Little Girl

There is a little girl
Living in her small world
World she created by her own imagination
Mountains stood from her ingenuity
Valleys set by her fantasy

And seas...
Seas full of her tears
Both tears of joy and sorrow

People ignore her
She's indifferent

People sneer at her
She stays indifferent

Nothing can distract her of her world
Her world is a way more beautiful
Rainbow descends
Clouds spread
Wave breaks
Wind gusts
Flowers bloom
Shadow remains its gloom

No material things
Just the beauty of light and dark
On her own world



* whoever this pic belongs to...i thank you ^^

Leave Out All The Rest

It's midday at office, and i hear this song. Good song with deep lyrics, love it ^^
Linkin Park is totally brilliant, they're awesome, rite?!?
And this is it..


"Leave Out All The Rest" - by Linkin Park

I dreamed I was missing, you were so scared
But no one would listen, 'cause no one else cared
After my dreaming, I woke with this fear
What am I leaving when I'm done here?

So if you're asking me, I want you to know

When my time comes, forget the wrong that I've done
Help me leave behind some reasons to be missed
Don't resent me, and when you're feeling empty
Keep me in your memory, leave out all the rest

Leave out all the rest, don't be afraid
I've taken my beating, I've shared what I made
I'm strong on the surface, not all the way through
I've never been perfect, but neither have you

So if you're asking me, I want you to know

When my time comes, forget the wrong that I've done
Help me leave behind some reasons to be missed
Don't resent me, and when you're feeling empty
Keep me in your memory, leave out all the rest
Leave out all the rest

Forgetting all the hurt inside you've learned to hide so well
Pretending someone else can come and save me from myself
I can't be who you are

When my time comes, forget the wrong that I've done
Help me leave behind some reasons to be missed
Don't resent me, and when you're feeling empty
Keep me in your memory, leave out all the rest
Leave out all the rest

Forgetting all the hurt inside you've learned to hide so well
Pretending someone else can come and save me from myself
I can't be who you are

I can't be who you are



*what do you think of the lyrics? aint it cool?
every pieces of it is meaningful, i love it..
just love it...

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Ho-hum

Nothing....
Just have fun with the new template. It looks pretty nice. What if i add some little personal touch, like pyramid or sphinx pics? ^^
But how to add it? Anyone could help me please...?!?!

Saturday, May 2, 2009

Friends With Benefits

It was a year ago, when I had alot more free time than now, i found this kind of term. It started with my hobby, surfing the internet just for fun. Search for funny glitter graphics or texts for my friendster account (OMG..it feels like a long long time ago). Then i read something catchy. It was "friends with benefits" or FWB.
At that moment i was so curious, and tried to find out the meaning. I asked to my best buddy -my partner in crime- (miss u alot nggub...), and she told me that friend with benefits is a friend to f**k around with (sounds a bit rude huh?)

Friends with benefits can do things couples can do except without being labeled as a boyfriend and a girlfriend, when you ask if they want to be friends with benefits with you, you both have to agree on what those benefits are, and it doesn't have to contain sex. Kissing, hugging, and holding hands for example. If you both agree on sex, then it's also considered as friends with benefits.

I found many articles from google that related or mention this term. Based on an article i've read, researchers from USA had surveyed undergraduates students about friends with benefits.
Two-thirds of participants said they had been in a FWB relationship, and 36% said they currently were in one. The main advantage of such a relationship was no commitment, yet the disadvantage was the possibility that feelings would develop. Or even it could harm friendship.

Well, it's a survey in USA, and i dunno here in our country, Indonesia. It is obvious that we have different culture and norms. And i post this for the purpose of information. Not in detail, just in outline. And of course, i mean no offense to those who are in FWB, cos it's not our right to judge people.

And now i ask you people, if anyone of you had experienced or currently are in FWB, please share me your opinion. Or if you just read this post and donot have any experience with FWB, i would like to know your opinion too.


* Si hoc legere scis nimium eruditionis habes ^_^